People who argue with their spouse to be never get to make it together as spouse. The reason is, when you argue and disagree all the time with a man or a woman, you make them lose trust and confidence in you.
But when you don't argue with him/her, you make them feel secure, safe, and confident in you. When you don't argue with your man or your woman, you make them feel "hey, am on your side" and that feeling can really feel good! And Bang! You win! They become completely dependent on you, they submit to you because they are not scared but trust you only share their interest at heart. You gain that golden trust, that ticket to a peaceful, happy coexistence. That is all you need. So stop arguing, start being supportive and gain that trust first before you attempt to make any chances in him/her!
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